16-MAY-2025 - I PRAYED, WHY DID I FAIL
THE MAIN THEME: FAILING FORWARD
TITLE: I PRAYED, WHY DID I FAIL?
The bible verse for today’s devotional is: Romans 8:28 (NIV)
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
Devotional
Have you ever prayed with all your heart for something—asking God for success, guidance, or help—and still faced failure? You did everything you believed was right: you prayed, trusted, worked hard, and waited. Yet, things didn’t turn out the way you expected. It’s easy to feel discouraged or confused. You might even wonder, Why did I fail after praying?
The truth is, failure doesn’t mean God didn’t hear your prayers, nor does it mean you were abandoned. God is not a genie who grants every wish the moment we ask. He’s a loving Father who cares about us deeply and works in ways that are sometimes beyond our understanding. His timing, His plans, and His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9).
In Romans 8:28, we are reminded that "in all things, God works for the good of those who love Him." This includes our failures. It may not feel like it in the moment, but God can use even our setbacks for something greater. Every failure can serve a purpose in His plan for us. Sometimes, what we view as a failure is a redirection, a moment for growth, or an opportunity to learn something new.
Consider the following when next you ask yourself; Why Did I Fail After Praying?
God’s Timing Is Perfect: God’s timing is not our timing. Just because something hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it’s a failure. It could mean that God is preparing you for what’s to come or that He’s waiting for the right moment to bless you. Trust that God’s timing is perfect, even when it feels like the answer is “no” or “not yet.”
God’s Plans Are Better Than Our Own: Sometimes, what we pray for is not what God has planned for us. We may ask for something that we think will bring us happiness, but God knows what will truly fulfill us. A “failure” may be God’s way of steering us toward something even better than what we had hoped for.
Failure Is Part of Growth: Failure is not the end. It’s a part of the process. God allows us to fail sometimes so that we can learn, grow, and become more like Him. In our weakness, we often find strength in Him. Failure teaches us humility, patience, and resilience, helping us to rely more on God and less on ourselves.
God Is Teaching Us to Trust Him More: Sometimes, failure after prayer is a test of our trust in God. Will we continue to believe in His goodness even when things don’t go as we planned? Will we keep trusting that He is working behind the scenes? God is asking us to place our faith in Him, knowing that He has a purpose for everything—even the things that don’t make sense right now.
Here are a few reflective questions;
- What lesson could God be teaching me through this failure?
- How can I grow spiritually from this experience instead of feeling discouraged?
Let us pray:
Lord, when I pray and things don’t turn out as I hoped, help me to trust in Your perfect timing and plan. Teach me to see failure as a stepping stone toward growth and transformation. Amen.
Please say these words of affirmation after me. Say them, mean them, own them, and live them:
- God’s plans for me are greater than my temporary setbacks.
- I trust His purpose for my life
- Failure does not mean God has abandoned me – it means He is guiding me towards something better.
Take good care dear ones, I will see you all tomorrow.
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