Title: It’s Not About What People Say but What I Say About Myself

The bible verse for today’s devotional is: Psalm 139:14 (NIV)

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;  your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

Devotional:

The opinions and perceptions of others can certainly have an impact, but ultimately, how you view yourself is what truly matters.  You can not control what others say, but you can control how you react. 

How you react to what people say about you can be challenging, especially during the teenage years because of the intense social dynamics that happen at this stage; but remember that how you react or respond tells a lot about who you are.

Respectfully affirm yourself always. Instead of letting negative comments affect you, choose to respond in a way that reflects your maturity. If someone says something hurtful or inappropriate, calmly but firmly communicate your boundaries and stand up for yourself.

Make a list of positive attributes, values, or beliefs affirming your worth, capabilities, and potential. Affirming yourself can help boost your self-esteem, reinforce a positive self-image, and cultivate resilience in the face of challenges. You can use it to counteract negative talk or criticisms. Do not forget to pay attention to the positive feedback and compliments you receive rather than dwelling on the negative.

Here are a few reflective questions::

• Who am I?
• What do I believe about myself?

Let us pray:

God, help me to surround myself with people who uplift and support me. When I am told unpleasant things, help me respond in ways that please you.

Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them

I am worthy of love and respect.

I am loved with everlasting love.

I am capable of overcoming any obstacle.

I am proud of who I am becoming.

Enjoy your day. Take good care of yourself and see you tomorrow.

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