THE MAIN THEME: WHEN DO I GET THERE?
TITLE: THE DANGERS OF ASSUMPTIONS
The quote for today’s devotional is:
"Assumptions are the termites of relationships."
– Henry Winkler
Devotional:
Assumptions can lead us down a path of misunderstanding and missed opportunities. When we assume, we create a reality in our minds that may be far from the truth. Assumptions are often based on our past experiences, biases, or incomplete information, and they can damage relationships and hinder personal growth.
Imagine a friend who stops replying to your messages. You might assume they’re upset with you when, in reality, they’re going through a tough time and need support. Without checking in, assumptions can cause us to act on false beliefs and even push others away.
A powerful example of the danger of assumptions is the story of NASA’s Mars Climate Orbiter. A simple assumption about measurement units caused the loss of a $125 million spacecraft. One team assumed measurements in metric units while the other used imperial, leading to its crash. This example shows that assumptions, even small ones, can have costly consequences.
Breaking free from assumptions requires asking questions, clarifying information, and having an open mind. Doing so leads to better understanding, stronger relationships, and greater trust.
Here are a few reflective questions:
- Do I often find myself making assumptions about people or situations?
- How have assumptions impacted my relationships or decisions in the past?
- How can I develop a habit of asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions?
Let us pray:
Lord, help me to avoid assumptions and seek truth with an open heart. Give me the courage to ask questions, listen deeply, and approach each situation with understanding and patience. May I see others through Your eyes, free from judgement and misunderstandings. Amen.
Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them:
- God knows when I will get there
- I choose to approach life with curiosity and clarity.
- I will seek understanding and truth in my relationships and decisions.
- I have courage to ask questions and I have the patience needed to listen deeply.
Be unassuming today. Take good care of yourself. I’ll see you tomorrow.