THE MAIN THEME: WHO DO I GO WITH?

TITLE: HANDLING DIFFICULT PARENTS

 The bible verse for today’s devotional is:  Proverbs 21:1 (NIV)

In the Lord’s hand the king’s heart is a stream of water that he channels toward all who please him.

Devotional:

 Ije as she was fondling called by her friends suffered so much abuse in the hands of her parents as a child up until her teenage years.  What was the problem? She had parents who were raising her from a place of fear and perfectionism.

Her parents projected their fears of raising a young girl who will not get pregnant out of wedlock, a girl who would not bring disgrace to their pastoral ministry.  They beat and called her demeaning names, shaming her at the least provocation.

Ije’s upbringing led to so much pent-up emotions, low self-esteem, depression and self-sabotaging beliefs. However, in all these ordeals she never for once, dishonored or disrespected her parents though she resented them. Eph 6:2 tells us to honour our father and mother unconditionally.

Our text for today assures us that God has the heart of our parents in His hand, when we present them to God, he steps into the situation to help and guide us. Try the following tips in handling the situation:

Acknowledge and validate your feelings of hurt to your parents. This requires the skill of effective and open communication. Remember the place of honor while sharing your concerns. Having a conversation is no guarantee that you will be heard or the issue fixed automatically.  Regardless of how it goes, learn to extend grace to your parents, while guarding your heart from accumulating the pain.

 Here are a few reflective questions:

• What can I learn from this experience? How can I grow and develop as a result of it?
• How can I communicate my needs and boundaries clearly and assertively?
• Are there other difficult people I must relate with?

Let us pray

Dear Lord, thank you for your word to me today. I know that my parents are an integral part of my life, helping us to understand and extend grace to one another. Grant us to live and love one another and I receive grace to honour them unconditionally. I pray in Jesus name. Amen

 Please say these words of affirmation after me: Say them mean, own them and live them--

• I am worthy of peace, respect and kindness
• I am in control of my emotions and responses, I am calm no matter what and
• I am grateful for the challenges that make me stronger.

Do enjoy your day dear ones, I’ll see you tomorrow.

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 THE MAIN THEME: WHO DO I GO WITH? 

TITLE: MAXIMIZING PEOPLE

The quote for today’s devotional is:
 "Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much." – Helen Keller

Devotional:
Every person you meet brings unique talents, experiences, and perspectives into your life. Maximizing people means recognizing their potential, valuing their contributions, and empowering them to shine. It’s about fostering collaboration, encouraging growth, and creating an environment where everyone can thrive.

Consider Nelson Mandela, a leader who maximized the potential of those around him. He believed in the power of collective action and inspired individuals to come together for a greater purpose. Through his leadership, he united people from different backgrounds, helping them see their role in building a better future. His life reminds us that we achieve more when we uplift and invest in others.

Maximizing people isn’t about using others for personal gain but about nurturing relationships where everyone benefits. When we take time to appreciate and support the strengths of those around us, we create a ripple effect of growth, innovation, and success.

Here are a few reflective questions:

1. How do I recognize and value the strengths of people in my life?
2. Am I creating opportunities for others to grow and succeed?
3. How can I better collaborate with those around me for mutual benefit?

Let us pray:

"Lord, thank You for the people You’ve placed in my life. Help me to see their potential,

encourage their growth, and work with them to fulfill a greater purpose. Teach me to lead

with humility and inspire with love. Amen."

Please say these words of affirmation after me. Say them, mean them, own them, and live them:

• I maximize people by recognizing their potential, encouraging their growth, and fostering collaboration.
• Together, we achieve greatness and create lasting impact.
• I see opportunities and I maximize them promptly
• I utilize my potential fully and also maximize the potentials of people I am blessed with

 Do have a fulfilling day. Take good care of yourself and see you tomorrow!

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THE MAIN THEME: WHO DO I GO WITH? 

TITLE: NETWORKING EFFECTIVELY

The quote for today’s devotional is:
 "It’s not what you know, but who you know—and who knows you." – Harvey Mackay

Devotional:
Networking isn’t just about collecting business cards or gaining contacts; it’s about building meaningful relationships that can open doors to opportunities, knowledge, and growth. Effective networking means connecting with people authentically, sharing mutual value, and cultivating trust. It’s a skill that can shape your future and help you achieve your goals.

Consider Oprah Winfrey, a global icon who is known not only for her talent but also for her ability to connect deeply with others. Through meaningful relationships and collaborations, she expanded her influence and created impactful opportunities for herself and others. Oprah’s journey underscores the importance of genuine connections in achieving success.

Effective networking involves more than surface-level interactions; it requires active listening, a willingness to help others, and consistent follow-up. Whether it’s in your school, workplace, or community, networking is a two-way street. By offering support and being open to learning, you create a network of allies who can help you navigate challenges and celebrate victories.

Here are a few reflective questions:

1. What steps can I take to build authentic connections in my personal or professional life?
2. How can I add value to the relationships within my network?
3. Are there opportunities to connect with people who inspire or challenge me?
4. How can I maintain and nurture my current relationships effectively?

Let us pray:

Lord, thank You for the connections You bring into my life. Teach me to network with integrity and build meaningful relationships that align with my purpose. Amen.

Please say these words of affirmation after me. Say them, mean them, own them, and live them:

• I network effectively by building genuine and meaningful connections.
• I bring value to my relationships and create opportunities for mutual growth and success.

Go do some effective networking today. Take good care of yourself and I’ll see you tomorrow! 

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THE MAIN THEME: WHO DO I GO WITH? 

TITLE: MY VALUES AND MY FRIENDS

The bible verse for today’s devotional is: 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)

Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.

Devotional:
Our values shape who we are and guide our decisions, including the choice of friends. Friendships have a powerful influence on our lives—they can either build us up or lead us astray. If we surround ourselves with people whose actions and beliefs align with our values, we’re more likely to grow and thrive. On the other hand, keeping close relationships with those who disregard our principles can cause us to compromise and stray from our purpose.

Think about Daniel and his three friends, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. They shared a strong commitment to God and encouraged each other to stay true to their faith, even in the face of danger. Their shared values gave them the strength to resist the pressures of Babylonian culture and stand firm in their beliefs. This example reminds us of the importance of choosing friends who uphold and reinforce our values.

Your values act as a compass, guiding you toward what is right and meaningful. Surrounding yourself with friends who respect and reflect these values helps you stay true to who you are, even when challenges arise.

Here are a few reflective questions:

1. Do my current friendships align with my core values?
2. How do my friends influence my decisions and behaviors?
3. Are there relationships I need to adjust or let go of to protect my values?

Let us pray:

Lord, help me to choose friends who honor and respect the values You’ve placed in my heart.

Teach me to be a good friend and surround me with people who inspire and encourage me to

walk in Your truth. Guide me in nurturing meaningful and uplifting relationships. Amen.

Please say these words of affirmation after me. Say them, mean them, own them, and live them:

• I surround myself with friends who respect my values and inspire me to grow.
• I choose relationships that reflect integrity, kindness, and purpose, and I stay true to the principles that guide my life.
• I am kind, gentle, trustworthy and I have integrity

Do have an awe-mazing day. Take good care of yourself and I’ll see you tomorrow!

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